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Sleep 101: How to Sleep Better According to Science 2024
Till the 1950s, sleep was considered a dormant activity, but today we know its importance. While we sleep, our body reboots, repairs, and recovers rapidly, making sleep necessary for survival, much like food and water. But in this always-connected, productivity-obsessed culture, getting quality sleep is a distant dream for many. About one in four Americans develop insomnia every year. Goal-oriented life, social pressure, stress, and responsibilities keep us on foot all day and don’t let us rest in the night.
Recent Insomnia Stats:
30%–35% of U.S. adults have experienced short-term insomnia symptoms.
Around 40 million Americans have chronic insomnia.
Women are twice as likely to develop insomnia.
The annual cost related to insomnia in the US surpasses $100 billion.
In this sleep guide, we will help you figure out how to sleep better at night and use your sleep to improve your productivity. Together we will figure out how much sleep you need, how sleep works, how sleep deficiency occurs, and the practical steps you can take to improve your sleep quality.
So let’s begin and tackle the first big question, how long you should snooze to get all the benefits of deep sleep.
How Much Sleep Do You Need?
The National Sleep Foundation suggests 7-9 hours of sleep for average adults. However, factors like age, gender, and health conditions also affect the amount of sleep you need to function.
So, how long should an average person sleep?
It’s a complex question to answer.
Let’s have a look at a few crucial factors:
Your Chronotype Determines Your Sleep Requirement
Chronotype is our natural inclination towards the time we prefer to sleep. The Los Angeles based sleep doctor and the author of The Power of When, Michael Breus, identifies four different chronotypes based on:
when you sleep or wake up,
and, what is your most productive time of the day?
Dolphins
Lightest sleepers
Irregular sleep routine
Wake up several times during the night
Extremely intelligent and perfectionists
Work best from mid-morning to early afternoon.
Lions
Early Risers
Go-getters and leaders
Full of energy from early morning to noon
Frizzle out in the evening and go to bed early
Bears
Most common category
Align sleep cycle with the rise and fall of the sun
At their best in mid-morning and lowest in mid-afternoon
Wolf
Night owls; stay up late but wake up early
They are creative like writers, artists, and coders
They are usually introverts
Highly active during the day
Most creative during the evening
Figuring out your chronotype is quite simple. All you need to do is to monitor your sleepiness, alertness, and performance throughout the day.
Feeling tired even after 8 hours of quality sleep is a big sign that your bedtime routine isn’t aligned with your chronotype. Thus, you need to modify your sleep timings to match your biological clock if you want to unlock your true potential and prevent slugginess during the day.
But the question is, why is chronotype different from person to person?
The simple answer is, genes!
Scientists have identified the profound effects of genes on your sleep needs, chronotype, and susceptibility to sleep disorders. Till now, the National Institute of Health has identified as many as seven genes common among insomniacs.
Primarily, the amount of time you sleep is linked to two regions of your DNA:
one for more than the average sleeping time
the second for less than average sleeping time.
The second region is also linked to an increased risk of depression and schizophrenia.
Despite that, you can still somewhat manipulate your sleep cycle through light exposure, exercise, and strict sleep schedules. Many other factors also have a profound effect on how much sleep we need. One of the most influential and researched parameters to figure this out is age.
Age-Based Sleep Differences
Sleep requirements can be categorized into five different age groups based on the general lifestyle and body requirements.
Newborn to 11 months
14 – 17 hrs
1 to 5 years old
10 – 14 hrs
6 to 17 years old
8 – 11 hrs
Adults (18 to 64)
7 – 9 hrs
Older adults (65+)
7 – 8 hrs
Newborn to 11 months
Polyphasic
2.5 – 4 hrs
Several naps throughout the day
1 to 5 years old
Monophasic, short nap/s during the day
3 – 4 hrs
The number of naps decreases from several to only 1, lasting for 3 – 4 hours.
6 to 17 years old
Monophasic
0 – ½ hrs
Seldom takes daytime naps.
Some may take 15 minutes power nap.
Adults (18 to 64)
Monophasic
0 – ½ hrs
Seldom takes daytime naps.
Some may take 15 minutes power nap.
Older adults (65+)
polyphasic
1 – 2 hrs
Take 1-2 naps lasting for a few hours to cover up night sleep loss
According to the National Institutes of Health, our sleep requirements decrease as we grow older.
Kids need the most sleep as it’s crucial for their proper growth and learning. That’s why babies take many naps throughout the day. By their first birthday, their sleep stabilizes with increased nighttime snooze.
As you grow older, your sleep patterns are set, but the time you spend in bed decreases. During the teenage years, your biological clock shifts to match hormonal changes, studies schedule, and excessive exposure to blue light.
The older we get, the less we sleep; however, our bodies still require 7-9 hours of rest to function optimally. But elderly folks are unable to sleep for long hours continuously. They mostly sleep lightly, so they get interrupted with the slightest movement. That’s why older people take regular naps during the day to cover the sleep loss.
But, it’s the younger adults who miss out on their sleep the most and are at risk of developing sleep problems. Not only the sleep duration but quality of rest is also crucial for well-rested, rejuvenated mornings.
Although sleep data shows little difference based on gender, according to a study by Professor Jim Horne, director of the Sleep Research Center at Loughborough University, on average, women sleep 20 minutes more than men each night.
“And that’s down to a woman’s busy, multitasking brain.” The researchers propose.
The more brain you use during the day, the more sleep you need to regenerate and recover. Women often need to juggle a job, home, family responsibilities, and childcare on a daily basis. This multitasking exhausts them physically and mentally more than men.
As researchers note, “A man who has a complex job that involves a lot of decision-making and lateral thinking may also need more sleep than the average male – though probably still not as much as a woman.”
So, there you have it, girls — if you and your male partner often play the game of competitive tiredness, you can always quote science to win the argument. A leading U.S. commentator on health and wellness, Arianna Huffington declares women’s sleep ‘the next feminist issue’ and a significant hurdle preventing women from achieving their true potential.
On the contrary, Dr. Ulrich Voderholzer and his fellow researchers argue that “studies indicate that gender seems to have, if any, relatively little influence on sleep per se.” Hormonal fluctuations due to menstruation, pregnancy, and menopause, along with the increased level of stress, all play a vital role in causing sleep problems in women.
They also believe that women are more at risk of sleep disorders because of the “gender differences in the prevalence of anxiety and depression.”
Many studies, similar to the one by The Society for Women’s Health Research (SWHR), Washington, DC, show that women take longer to fall fully asleep. Their NREM and REM phases are short compared to men, which means low-quality sleep. It also puts them at a higher risk of developing insomnia, Restless Legs Syndrome, and other sleep-related illnesses.
Let’s see what’s REM and NREM and how it impacts your body and mind.
How is Sleep An Important Physiological Process?
Our sleep isn’t a numbers game.
Despite all the research, surveys, and experiments, humans are still far from decoding the exact science behind sleep. Yet one thing is as clear as day; it’s much less about the number of hours, and much more about the quality of the sleep you get.
Let’s explore how does sleep work…
The Sleep Process: Sleep-Wake Cycle
Our sleep is a cyclic process with four distinct phases. One sleep-wake cycle takes 90 – 120 minutes to complete, and an average person undergoes 4 or 5 cycles per night.
The following table briefly describes the major characteristics of all four stages of sleep.
Stage 1 (Non-REM)
The transition from wakefulness to sleep
Muscles relax
Heartbeat and breathing slows down
Occasional jerky limbs
Stage 2 (Non-REM)
EEG slows down, and body temperature drops
Eye movement stops completely
Minimal brain activity with occasional outbursts
Sleep cycle repeats most in stage 2
Stage 3 (Non-REM)
Deep sleep phase
Shallow breathing and heart rate
Inhibited brain activities
Essential for growth and immunity
REM
Heartbeat and breathing increases
Mixed brain activity
Arms and leg muscles are paralyzed
Dreams occur in this stage
NREM is also called quiescent or dreamless sleep. You spend 80% of your sleep in NREM mode and 20% in REM sleep. Stage 3 NREM is the deepest sleep phase, and it’s difficult to wake a person during this phase. The response to external stimuli is minimal. If a person does wake up during NREM Stage 3, he feels disoriented and groggy for some time.
At the end of each cycle, the body enters NREM Stage 1 again, and the cycle continues. Two of these four stages are the most important in regards to sleep quality:
Slow-Wave Sleep or Deep Sleep
Rapid-Eye-Movement or REM Sleep
At the beginning of your sleep, slow-wave sleep duration is longer, and the REM phase is shorter. However, as the night progresses, and your body becomes well-rested, deep sleep becomes shorter while the REM phase progressively becomes longer.
Over the last two decades, the link of sleep to learning, memory consolidation, and cognitive functions has been researched extensively by scientists like Huber, Born J., and their fellow researchers.
Each of these stages plays a different role in our rest and recovery. To keep it simple, NREM is associated with the repair of the body, while REM sleep is responsible for restoring the mind to its normal functional state. However, there is much overlapping and interdependence.
For instance, in an experiment, scientists deprived healthy individuals off of slow-wave sleep without changing their duration of the overall sleep. A sharp decrease in several higher mental abilities was evident.
On the other hand, when participants in a study were deprived of REM sleep, they were unable to recall what they had learned just before sleeping. But, they could still retrieve some information when they were deprived of slow-wave sleep only.
Let’s have a look at some of the most interesting benefits of sleep.
Importance of Sleep According to Science
We take our rest for granted, but research shows how crucial it is to get at least 6-7 hours of sleep each night. According to Dr. Merrill Mitler, a sleep expert and neuroscientist at NIH, “Sleep services all aspects of our body in one way or another: molecular, energy balance, as well as intellectual function, alertness, and mood.
Research today is more focused on the benefits of sleep than studying the detrimental effects of sleep deprivation. So far, scientists have uncovered many immensely important benefits. Many theories about the function of sleep are being put to scientific scrutiny.
Let’s have a look at what scientists have figured out so far, and believe me, you don’t want to miss out on any of them!
Body Repair
Scientists have enough evidence to prove that sleep is extremely crucial for the maintenance of our physiological functions. According to the researchers at the University of Wisconsin, sleep increases the production of our regenerative brain cells. Most tissue repair, protein synthesis, and muscle growth also occur during sleep.
Energy Restoration
When we’re awake, a chemical, adenosine, builds up in our body due to the breakdown of energy molecules. Interestingly, this chemical is also linked with sleepiness. During sleep, it absorbs in the brain’s waste clearance system and gets eliminated by the body. As Dr. Nedergaard, University of Rochester Medical Center of New York, sums it up nicely, “We need sleep. It cleans up the brain.”
Growth Hormone Release
Scientists have enough evidence to prove that GH is released during sleep. Although G.H. levels are at its peak during youth and steadily decline with age, the sleep cycle and its disruption affect G.H. release at any age significantly. Studies further show that G.H. surge is absent if you stay awake during your usual sleep time and occurs only during your ZZZs.
Learning Boost and Memory Consolidation
Extensive studies involving both humans and mice show a strong connection between learning and sleep.
Researchers of the New York University School of Medicine experimented on rice to explore the connection between learning and sleep. They noticed that the neural cells stimulated during different learning tasks in mice, activated again while they were asleep.
Another research compared the performance of two groups of students after they got training for a new skill. One group was allowed to sleep overnight before the test, while the other stayed awake. Although they were tested after an equal duration of time, the group that slept performed better than the group that stayed awake during the break.
So, we understand that sleep is absolutely essential for the proper functioning of our body. Now the question is, how does our body know when to sleep and when to wake up? Is it an acquired behavior or something as autonomous as circulation or digestion?
Understanding The Sleep Mechanism
Sleep is the backbone of our health and wellness. So, we need to dig a little deeper into the science of sleep to understand if and how we can preserve this intricate balance of sleep and wakefulness.
2-Process Model of Sleep Regulation
Dr. Alexander Borbely presented his 2-Process Model of sleep regulation in 1982. He identified two processes that influence our sleep and wakeful states.
Let’s discuss each of them briefly.
Sleep-Wake Homeostasis:
It’s your internal biochemical system that acts as a timer. According to Borbely, some sleep-inducing substances accumulate in your brain and create an urge for sleep. The longer you’re awake, the more substances collect in your body, and thus you experience a stronger urge to sleep.
A pioneering chronobiologist and scientist, Michel Siffre, conducted an intriguing experiment to prove the presence of sleep-wake homeostasis.
He lived like a spartan in a cave for six months to study his biological rhythm. He had a single yellow bulb, a large stock of frozen food, and 800 gallons of water. Since he had no connection with the outside world, he had no way of knowing when it was day or night.
Interestingly, in the absence of day and night, his sleep cycle got slightly longer, about 24 hours 30 minutes. He also occasionally transitioned to a 48-hours sleep cycle when he would sleep for 12 hours after staying awake for 1.5 days.
He recalls, “My sleep was perfect. My body chose itself when to eat and sleep.”
In a nutshell, the sleep-wake homeostasis causes a drive to sleep and wakes up the body when it has rested, and the sleep pressure is low. If sleep stress is accumulated for a week or so due to poor sleep, then our sleep-wake homeostasis puts us into deep sleep forcibly to catch up for the missed hours.
However, this homeostasis cannot work alone. It only causes the pressure to sleep but needs the circadian rhythm to maintain the daily cycle of sleep and wakefulness.
Circadian Rhythm works as your internal biological clock to regulate your sleep and wake up timings. It monitors your biological processes such as sleep, hunger drive, and hormones production over the 24-hr period.
In adults, the intense sleep need occurs between 2:00 – 4:00 a.m. at night and 1:00 – 3:00 pm during the day. However, these timings differ slightly according to your genes or chronotype, i.e., whether you’re a morning or night person.
Besides chronotype, exposure to light and dark is the strongest pacesetter of this process. Through the production of melatonin in the night and cortisol in the morning, it keeps your sleep-wake cycle consistent.
As night falls, your brain triggers the release of melatonin, a sleep-inducing hormone. It decreases your body temperature and allows your body to relax and sleep under the influence of sleep pressure.
Near dawn, melatonin secretion slows down. Around the same time, the body releases cortisol due to exposure to light and signals you to wake up.
Hacking Your Sleep Cycle for Productivity… But Should You?
Most people think of sleep as one big chunk of eight hours snooze. Such a sleep pattern is called monophasic sleep and is considered a healthy or normal sleeping pattern, but some scientists do not agree!
At the moment, scientists recognize three major sleep patterns, as shown in the table below.
Monophasic
8 hours sleep at night without any naps during the day
Biphasic
6-7 hours sleep at night with a nap in the afternoon
Polyphasic
90 minutes to 6 hours sleep at night with multiple 20-minute naps during the day to add up to 3-4 hours
Today, polyphasic sleep is popular among next-gen professionals aiming for maximum productivity out of their day and night. Polyphasic sleepers sleep in chunks to optimize their rest and increase their productive hours without getting any sleep deprivation.
It’s not a new concept. A group of historians believes most human adults used to sleep 3 to 4 times a day until rapid industrialization imposed long working hours, forcing them to sleep in one long chunk at night.
It’s rumored that polyphasic sleep has fueled great minds, like Leonardo Da Vinci and Nikola Tesla, and its trending in Silicon Valley as well.
The proponents of this theory believe that polyphasic sleep quickly transitions you to slow-wave sleep and the REM phase. When your body is tired, NREM stage 1 and 2 are short, and the most restorative NREM, stage 3, is longer. As a result, by sleeping in chunks you need less sleep to get all the uber benefits of sleep.
However, sleep scientist Dr. Alon Avidan at Sleep Disorder Center at the University of California is against this trend. According to him, polyphasic sleep is not only dangerous, but no significant research supports its benefits for adults.
He strongly disapproves manipulation of sleep patterns because your body is attuned to circadian genes that release sleep and wake hormones as per the rise and fall of the sun. Many studies also reveal risks of health issues and shorter lifespan among graveyard and/or rotating shift workers.
However, Dr. Avidan supports a biphasic sleep cycle in which humans sleep during the night, wake up early and nap in the afternoon to release some of the sleep pressure. Biphasic sleep is the second most common pattern, also known as Siesta sleep. It’s part of many cultures, and Dr. Avidan notes that humans adopted it due to environmental factors or work requirements instead of any biological needs.
However, sleep expert Dr. Michael Breus, Ph.D., believes there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. He says, “Consistency is crucial to healthy sleep, no matter what sleep schedule you follow,” as your body adapts to whichever pattern you choose and follow consistently.
But, if you don’t snooze for long enough or your sleep quality is poor, it can have detrimental effects on your life. Let’s see how.
Science Behind Sleep Deprivation
About 35% of Americans are sleep deprived, costing the nation $411 billion annually. Poor sleep affects their physical, mental, and emotional well-being. It leads to poor concentration levels, weak judgment, slow reaction time, mood swings, weight gain, and low perception of life.
According to the National Institutes of Health, an average adult sleeps less than seven hours each night. Although 6-7 hours of continuous sleep may sound enough, according to scientists, it can still lead you to sleep deprivation.
How Do You Become Sleep Deprived?
Sleep deprivation can occur due to a number of reasons. Many people think of sleep as a wastage of time and intentionally deprive themselves of sleep. But, other than that, the most common causes of sleep loss are discussed below:
Lifestyle Issues
Demanding lifestyle, shift work, family responsibilities, social activities, late-night assignments, and money-making pursuits; all encroach your sleep duration.
The modern world collides with our biological clock in many different ways. We spend our mornings in the dark inside and our nights in the bright light. It messes up our sleep-wake homeostasis and leaves us sleep-deprived and vulnerable.
Sleep Disorders
Around 50-70 million U.S. population suffers from some kind of sleep disorder. Insomnia, sleep apnea, narcolepsy, and restless leg syndrome are a few common sleep-related issues.
They cause long-term sleep deprivation due to frequent sleep disturbances. Sleep experts can treat most of the sleep disorders by dealing with the underlying causes.
Aging
People above the age of 65 find it hard to sleep for long hours and cover up the deficit through daytime naps. Moreover, most elderly folks have poor sleep quality due to the prolonged light-sleep phase.
Their circadian rhythm also shifts to phase advance level, which requires early sleep and wake up time, but they continue staying up late. As a result, they miss sleep and become more susceptible to sleep disorders.
Medication
Many over-the-counter medications affect your sleep cycle. Cough and cold syrups are known to cause drowsiness and daytime somnolence, particularly problematic for allergy sufferers.
Medicines for high blood pressure and asthma can keep you awake till late at night. Since they are used for an indefinite time, they can cause various sleep issues for the patient.
Lack of sleep night after night puts considerable stress on our body’s resources. It hinders the repair and restoration of the body and upsets the sleep-wake cycle.
Accumulated sleep loss leads to what scientists like to call, the sleep debt.
Sleep Debt Is a Cumulative Issue
Sleep debt is the collective effect of sleep loss when you don’t snooze enough regularly. If you sleep less than 8 hours regularly, it puts your body under a lot of stress, which continues to pile up.
When you don’t sleep enough, your body doesn’t get enough time to recover.
As this sleep debt keeps accumulating, you start to experience a decline in your physical and mental performance.
To establish this fact, two separate studies were performed, one by David Dinges at the University of Pennsylvania and another similar one by Gregory Belenky at Walter Reed Army Institute of Research in Silver Spring.
Both studies restricted groups of healthy men and women to different sleep hours for two weeks in the lab. The results were similar for both studies. They found that anything less than 8 hours of sleep showed unsatisfactory results in terms of sustained attention. The participants sleeping less than 8 hours showed a decline in performance with every passing day.
Belenky, Director of the Sleep and Performance Research Center at Washington State University, notes, “You don’t see it the first day. But you do in five to seven days. Unless you’re doing work that doesn’t require much thought, you are trading time awake at the expense of performance.”
The subjects that slept fewer hours produced poorer results earlier than the ones who slept a little more. However, those who slept more than 8 hours showed no better results than those who slept 8 hours every night.
Both experiments found 7.5 to 8 hours of sleep a good range for most adults. Further studies noted individual differences among sleepers.
Some 8-hr sleepers showed a performance deficit after only a single night of less sleep.
Others took a few days before their test results started to falter.
Only 5% of the sleepers showed no performance issues on 5 hours or less sleep per night.
A tiny percentage of subjects required 9-10 hours to maintain baseline performance.
Dinges notes these fluctuations are due to their genes; therefore, a sleeper who belongs to one group cannot train to become like those on another group.
The most astonishing observation was the fact that the participants were unable to notice their performance decline themselves.
Which makes one question, how do you know you are sleep deprived?
Sleep deprivation has some clear indicators, and if you pay attention, you can recognize them too. These include:
Mood swings
Tiredness without any reason
Inability to memorize and recall
Difficulty to understand instructions
Increased appetite
Lessened sex drive
Sleep deprivation is common among children as they have high energy levels, increased drive for learning, and curiosity towards the environment. But unlike adults, when children are sleep deprived, they become more active and resist going to bed.
Many people think they can cover up for their sleep loss by snoozing more on the weekend. Let’s find out if that’s possible.
Can You Pay Your Sleep Debt?
As per Dr. Alon Avidon, the University of California, “Sleep is not like a bank account. You can’t sleep for one hour, then two hours, and combine it with another four and say it’s seven hours.”
Researchers at Penn State University College of Medicine put 30 healthy individuals through a 13-night sleep laboratory experiment to investigate the cumulative cost of additional wakefulness.
After two nights of recovery sleep, 10 hours each, researchers noticed daytime sleepiness and inflammation markers return to normal, but the attention levels of the participants still showed a deficit.
However, other studies found combining recovery sleep followed by a nap during the day, a good strategy for a complete reversal of the adverse effects of sleep loss.
In fact, according to a study by NASA, 40-minutes of nap among sleepy military pilots and astronauts enhanced alertness by 100% and improved performance by 34%.
This data correlates with Dr. Avidon’s claim, “With sleep debt, you’re borrowing sleep at a very high-interest rate. For one hour of sleep, it takes a full (night) of normal sleep recovery to make up the difference.”
However, you should avoid naps later in the day because they can affect your nighttime sleep adversely.
What Happens If you Don’t Repay Sleep Debt?
Lack of sleep makes you sluggish and tired. But the effects of sleep deprivation are much more severe. Below are the most surprising yet grave consequences of accumulated sleep loss, i.e., sleep debt.
Restricting your sleep to a few hours increases your risk of blood sugar, insulin sensitivity, increased blood pressure, and stroke. In a study, healthy young men started showing signs of prediabetes within a week of restricting their sleep for 4-5 hours every night.
Weight Gain
According to a study by the National Institutes of Health, 89% of sleep-deprived children and 55% of adults are at risk of gaining weight. Inadequate sleep increases the production of the hunger-stimulating hormone, ghrelin, and reduces appetite-controlling hormone, leptin. As a result, people who sleep less tend to eat more.
Skin Issues and Aging
Chronic deprivation can cause your skin to lose luster, deepen fine lines, and cause dark circles. Poor sleep releases an increased amount of stress hormone, cortisol, which breaks down skin collagen, the protein responsible for skin elasticity.
Decreases Immunity Levels
If you sleep less, you are 3 times more likely to develop common cold and flu. Moreover, you may also take more time to recover, even with proper treatment. Proper sleep saves our body from inflammation and allergy issues.
Effects on your Mental Health
Sleep restriction negatively affects our brain, and sleep debt leads to various psychological issues.
Impairs Reaction Time
Lack of sleep is one of the biggest reasons for road accidents. It is one of the leading public safety hazards as sleep loss impairs reaction time, similar to that of alcohol intoxication.
Leads to Depression
According to a study in 2007, people having insomnia are five times more likely to develop depression. At the same time, 90% of the individuals suffering from depression complain of poor sleep quality.
Impairs Cognitive Processes
Sleep debt impairs attention, concentration, and problem-solving skills. Lack of sleep also affects memory consolidation as you are unable to reach the deep sleep and REM stage crucial for learning.
Effects on Emotional Health
Sleep deprivation for a prolonged time can show signs of mood disorders and emotional health problems.
Impaired Emotion Recognition
When you starve your body off sleep, it impairs your social skills and inhibits your ability to judge emotions. Several facial recognition studies show that people who fall in the habit of sleeping less are unable to recognize the expressions of anger and happiness.
Relation of Sleep and Mood
Sleep restriction can cause irritability, anger, and sadness; even if the sleep deprivation is for a few hours only. According to a study by the University of Pennsylvania, daytime sleepiness can negatively impact your mood for the day.
Abnormal Emotional Reactivity
Sleep loss can limit our reaction to emotional stimuli due to unpredictable moods and diminished mental skills. It can manifest itself in the form of sudden outbursts, lashing out, dejection, and withdrawal.
How to Improve Your Sleep
In the past couple of decades, sleep quality has rapidly declined, leading the nation to sleep deprivation, sleep disorders, and resulting physical and mental problems. But the good news is, you can reverse most of the effects of sleep deprivation through a positive lifestyle.
You need to optimize your daily routine to achieve two goals:
Sleep Quality, i.e., the time you spend in slow-wave and REM sleep phase.
Sleep Quantity, i.e., your bedtime and duration of sleep
Getting the right quantity of sleep is easy, but making your rest count requires consistency and thoughtful living.
Below are a few useful tips to help you optimize both the quality and quantity of sleep so you can lead a healthy life.
Calculate Your Optimal Bedtime
First, figure out whether you’re an early bird or a night owl and set your bedtime accordingly. You may feel tired after a full night’s sleep if your bedtime doesn’t match with your chronotype, i.e., your internal clock.
So, you’ll need to synchronize your sleep timing to your circadian rhythm to get the best rest.
Most sleep calculators use the following criteria to calculate your bedtimes.
Wake-up time
Fifteen minutes allowance for falling asleep
Five or six 90-minute sleep cycles
The following table shows some of the bedtimes according to the above formula.
Bedtime
(7.5 hours, 5 cycles)
Bedtime
(9 hours, 6 cycles)
6:00 a.m.
10:15 a.m.
8:45 p.m.
6:30 a.m.
10:45 a.m.
9:15 p.m.
7:00 a.m.
11:15 a.m.
9:45 p.m.
7:30 a.m.
11:45 a.m.
10:15 p.m.
8:00 a.m.
12:15 a.m.
10:45 p.m.
8:30 a.m.
12:45 a.m.
11:15 p.m
9:00 a.m
1:15 a.m.
11:45 p.m.
If you feel tired after sleeping for 7.5 hours, add 15 more minutes to your sleep duration until you find the exact number of hours that work best for you.
Waking up a few minutes before your alarm goes off is a great way to start your day. Otherwise, you may feel groggy and tired in the morning. Conversely, if you’re waking up way before your alarm clock goes off, then shift your bedtime or wake up time accordingly.
Millions of people use sleep apps like Sleep Cycle to keep track of their sleep. These apps can record sound, movement, heart rate, respiration, and other physiological changes while you’re asleep. You can use this data to adjust your sleep schedule for optimal performance.
Lifestyle Changes for Sleep Quality
Sleep quality depends on the duration of slow-wave and REM stage of your sleep cycle. Obviously, you cannot control how much time you spend in any of the phases of sleep.
However, you can make lifestyle modifications to influence your sleep cycle and pave the way to deeper sleep.
Set Your Bedroom Environment
Uncluttered bedrooms calm an anxious mind instantly. The entire room, curtains, pillows, and of course the bed and the mattress should be harmonious to each other and your body.
Set a comfortable yet somewhat cool temperature for sleep. According to Cleveland Clinic, 60 to 67 oF is an ideal bedroom temperature for most sleepers.
Use heavy curtains or wear a sleep mask to block any light coming into the room. The darkroom signals the body to get ready for rest.
Whether your surroundings are noisy or the absolute silence disturbs you, you can use white noise machines to relax and detach yourself from the environment.
Your bed should be comfortable, supportive, and of the right size. Several studies show the positive effects of the right mattresses on restorative sleep. Your mattress firmness and thickness must complement your sleep position preferences and body structure.
Irrespective of your choice of mattress type (memory foam, latex, innerspring, or hybrid), it’s absolutely important to get the comfort right. Since comfort is quite subjective, it’s always better to test different mattresses in showrooms and get the one that fits the bill the most.
Always Think Positively Before Going to Bed
Instead of dreading about your sleep struggles, focus on what you achieved during the day and what you look forward to the next day. Clear your mind of any worries and stay positive; you will fall asleep before you even know it.
Use meditation, deep breathing techniques, and imagery to help relax your body and clear your mind to prepare yourself for rest.
Light yoga just before bed can stretch your muscles and help your body unwind before you hit the bed.
Reading a book in bed is a tried and tested method for getting yourself in the right state of mind and detach yourself from the stressors of life.
Drink sleep-inducing drinks such as warm milk or chamomile tea known to soothe your mind and help you relax.
Massage yourself or infuse your room or pillows with aromatic essential oils like lavender or chamomile to let their soothing whiffs lulling you to sleep.
A warm bath just before hitting bed can do wonders for total body and mind relaxation. If you have a home sauna, consider adding it to your bedtime ritual.
Keep a gratitude journal and write down one thing you’re thankful for each day to let go of negative vibes.
Adopt Good Habits Throughout the Day
An energized day promotes sleep satisfaction by boosting your sleep-wake homeostasis.
Sunlight exposure early in the morning and dim lights in the evening help our body transition through the sleep-wake cycle.
Eat healthy foods and take regular exercise to boost energy during the day. Read about which foods hinder your ability to sleep so you can avoid eating them, especially at night. Use yourself to your full potential each day so that you can achieve the optimal level of sleep pressure as the day progresses.
Limit caffeine and sugar intake and avoid it completely at least 6-8 hours before your planned bedtime.
Turn off the lights or dim them an hour before your bedtime to create an environment conducive to melatonin production.
The blue light of your smart devices disturbs your circadian rhythm. You should not use any gadgets at least 2 hours before your bedtime or use night-light mode.
The end goal here is to achieve sleep satisfaction and optimize performance. But, continued sleep deprivation puts your body under a lot of stress, and weekend recovery sleep is not enough to cover this deficit.
So if you want to sleep better and improve your productivity, it may seem counter-initiative, but you need to pay more attention to your sleep daily!
Shanir Kol, founder and CEO of SleePare, pioneered the “Try and Buy” model in eCommerce, enhancing mattress shopping by combining in-store trials with online purchases. Launching in 1999, his company focuses on customer satisfaction and eco-friendly practices, aiming to minimize mattress waste and expand sustainably.
I just walked in.Fazi was ready to help me out. She is smart easy to talk to and knows a lot about these mattresses. 30 minutes later I bought an amazing Helix Elite mattress.Fazi made the purchase easy.
I love this place. I was so clueless to what I wanted and needed. And Fazi i think the name of the guy he gave exceptional service. I would recommend 10/10
I had an absolutely incredible experience shopping at SleePare! I can't express enough how impressed and grateful I am for the outstanding assistance I received from Fazi. Despite not having an appointment, she went above and beyond to help me understand which mattress would suit my sleep style best. Her knowledge, patience, and attentiveness were remarkable.I visited the store multiple times—testing mattresses again and again, aligning payments, and even exploring pillow options—and every single time, I was treated with the utmost care and respect. The service was nothing short of exceptional, and I’m beyond thrilled to be finalizing my purchase with SleePare. Thank you for such an amazing experience!
I made an appointment online, went to the showroom and was assisted by Fazi. She was attentive, *not* pushy, the showroom and mattresses were clean and in great shape. Excellent service through the entire process from entrance to purchase (over the phone). Would HIGHLY recommend to anyone looking to try any popular online mattress brands!!
Best mattress showroom in town! customer service was perfect. Fazi was very knowledgeable about her work and was able to help me out with all of the questions i had about my purchase. highly recommend the mlily power cool!!!
Call me old fashioned but l have no idea how people buy mattresses without trying. I specifically came to Sleepare to try online mattress brands that are very popular right now and I got to work with Fazi. She explained all ins and outs of the mattresses they carry and helped me find the most supportive one specifically for me. I bought Leesa Legend Chill and am super excited about my new mattress. I will definitely update on how it feels in a couple of weeks
I had a great experience here with Valerio. He really took his time showing us every mattress and explaining the differences and what to look for. No pressure at all. Plus, it was nice to check out all the online mattresses in person.
The salesman we worked with was helpful and nice. Since we were still in decision mode, we left and when I got home I checked a few of the manufacturers online that we saw in the store. To my dismay, this store does not carry models sold by the manufacturers online. They only carry versions made for retail, that is one-offs. And the model that was closest to the online version was $900 more in the store. When we decided to go to this store we were expecting the same exact model as seen online, so it wound up being a bit of a waste of time. The store advertises that you can try mattresses sold online. Not really true.
My boyfriend and I had a terrific experience buying a HelixMidnight Elite from Sleepare. We came just to take a look but Fazi was so amazing we did not have any reasons NOT to buy it. We also got bedding bundle with it as a part of Black friday sales, I am super thrilled!
I went to buy a mattress since I moved to NYC recently, and I needed a new mattress. This showroom was amazing, especially their staff. Very attentive, listened to all my needs, and carefully helped me select a perfect mattress for me. Special thanks to Fazi, who helped me figure out the best mattress. I never knew that my back was hurting because I did not select the best mattress that fit my needs.
This was my first experience of actually going to a mattress store. I usually order my mattress online. The moment I walked in and was browsing, Fazi came up to me, introduced herself, and asked if I needed any help. She gave me so many recommendations, and I had no idea selecting a perfect mattress for myself could be so entertaining. I end up buying the flat-top mattress. I would recommend this store and ask for Fazi she is the best.
Fazi was amazing! She made mattress shopping easy and stress-free by really listening to what I was looking for and offering expert advice. She’s super knowledgeable, and patient, and never pushed me toward anything I didn’t want. The store had a great selection, and I found the perfect mattress thanks to her help. Highly recommend visiting this store and working with Fazi!
I had an amazing experience at this mattress store, and it’s all thanks to Fazi! From the moment I walked in, she made me feel welcome and at ease. I wasn’t entirely sure what I was looking for, but Fazi took the time to ask the right questions and truly listen to my preferences. She guided me through all the options without rushing me, and I could tell she genuinely cared about helping me find the perfect mattress—not just making a sale.
I came to try Helix mattresses because I kept seeing them everywhere online. I am glad that this showroom has all of the most popular online brands because when I tried the Helix - I didn’t like it as much. I guess I am not a “pillow top” person, so I went with more “flat top” mattress without tufting and I love it! Fazi answered all 10000 questions I had and did not push me at all😍🥰
I came in to try out the Helix mattresses after seeing them everywhere online. I'm really glad I visited this showroom because they carry all the popular online brands, and it gave me the chance to try a few different options. After testing the Helix, I realized it wasn’t the right fit for me. I’m just not a fan of the pillow top feel, so I ended up choosing a more “flat top” mattress without the tufting—and I absolutely love it!Fazi was incredible throughout the whole process. She answered all my questions (and I had a ton of them!) without ever making me feel rushed or pressured. Her knowledge and patience really made a difference, and she made the whole experience fun. I truly appreciated her time and expertise. Highly recommend working with her if you’re mattress shopping!
SleePare made mattress shopping so easy and stress-free. The showroom was clean, organized, and had a great variety of options to try out. The staff took the time to understand my preferences and guided me to the right choice. The delivery was fast and seamless. I'll definitely be back for future purchases
I had a fantastic experience at SleePare! The staff was incredibly knowledgeable and helped me find the perfect mattress for my needs. They weren't pushy at all, and I really appreciated the sleep trial option. My new mattress has completely transformed my sleep. Highly recommend SleePare to anyone looking for quality and comfort!
Such a nice and clean store. I have tried so many different brands in the past 3 months and this is by far the best one. Fazi is extremely patient, knowledgeable and most emphatic! She didnt push for the most expensive bed but instead she tried to find a mattress that would fit my needs.
I came on Saturday without an appointment but Fazi was very nice and helped me with all my questions despite being with so many other people. She guided me through mattresses and I ended getting Helix Twilight luxe. Totally recommend!
I had an excellent experience shopping for a mattress at Sleepare, and I highly recommend this store for anyone in the market for a new bed! The online appointment booking was incredibly easy, and I was able to schedule a time that worked perfectly for me in such a short notice. When I arrived, Fazi was exceptionally professional and took the time to listen to my specific preferences and sleep style. She introduced me to the Mlily brand, which I hadn’t heard of before, but I’m so glad she did! And she did not pressure me to buy and ask me to take time to make purchase decision. I purchased the mattress the next day morning after I went to the store the evening before.The Supercool Firm Mlily mattress has been a game changer. Not only did it eliminate my chronic backache, but it’s also perfect for sharing with a partner—no more waking up from their movements! The mattress is incredibly comfortable, and I feel like it’s an underrated gem in the mattress world, especially since there’s not much marketing around it.To top it off, the delivery was fast and hassle-free. I’m so glad I accidentally stumbled upon Sleepare, and I will definitely be recommending it to friends and family. If you're looking for a high-quality mattress with great service, this is the place to go!
Updating this:I emailed on August 20, again on August 22, and then called and nobody replied all three times. Is this store still open? If it’s this hard for me to buy will it be even harder for me if I need to return?I eventually found a number to get in touch with Bruce who helped me.Update: the Mlily I bought sags pretty badly by morning, causing back pain. I am trying to get it replaced, but the process is not easy. It has these built in holes for a bed frame that it is originally manufactured for. Sleepare will push this mattress on you and they even denied the holes existed. Well they do! Here’s a video. This is why brand new mattresses will sag. This is the replacement they sent me. Also the mattresses are made years ago. They probably bought them for super cheap and are selling them at MSRP. It’s becoming a huge waste of time.Having trouble getting support or sales people to respond.
valerio is an angel and a gentleman. he was so kind and patient, and my winkbed blue luxe 2 has been a game changer. a breezy and easy shopping experience.
I was hesitant at first, but this store exceeded all of my expectations. I worked with Valerio who is exceptionally knowledgeable about all things mattress related (ie construction, support, quality etc). Working with him has been a pleasure and I can't wait for my new bed!
I can’t say enough good things about our experience with Valerie! From the moment we walked in, he took the time to understand both my and my partner’s specific sleep needs and preferences. He didn’t just try to sell us a mattress; he truly cared about our sleep health, explaining how different options could impact our comfort and overall well-being. His knowledge and patience made us feel confident in our choice, and he went above and beyond to ensure we found the perfect fit. If you’re looking for someone who genuinely prioritizes your sleep health over making a quick sale, Valerio is the person to see!
Valerio from sleePare was absolutely the best when it came to giving us recommendations for mattresses. We fell in love with the mattress he sold us!!!!!
I purchased an M lily mattress at the New York City store a month ago and selected a mattress by M Lilly because of its firmness. When mattress was delivered, it was tightly rolled in a tube and vacuum packed, which concerned me from the onset as I felt the springs would be compromised . when I put the mattress on my bed it felt much softer than the mattress in the store, and when I looked at the tag on the mattress the manufacturing date was almost 3 years old, I called and spoke to Bruce in the customer service department a guy. He assured me he would credit me the price of the mattress as well as pick up the mattress “soon”. since then I have made several follow up phone calls and nobody answers and nobody returns my calls. I bought the mattress with a credit card and I am going to make a claim that my credit card company not pay this invoice. This was really a terrible experience with a terrible salesman..
the only reason I went to Sleepare was to try one of those online mattress brands.The only reason why i left the store buying two mattresses was only because of Valerio, the sales guy.Not only did he help me made the right mattress choice but he did it with his extensive knowledges and joyful spirit.He didn't just recommend the most expensive options-he focused on finding the mattresses that would fit my needs.
I had an exceptional experience shopping for mattresses here. After doing some of my own research online, I was left feeling a bit overwhelmed by the prospect of purchasing a new mattress, but visiting Sleepare helped simplify the process. I was helped by Valerio who went above and beyond to explain the qualities in a mattress I should be looking for while taking my sleep habits into consideration. He was very honest about the expensive name-brand mattresses and explained how the most expensive is not necessarily the best mattress to meet my needs. I was able to spend time trying out several different mattresses. After speaking with Valerio, I left feeling far less daunted than when I arrived. I ended up purchasing a mattress that I am very happy with! They offer a four month trial period in case the mattress does not meet my expectations. I highly recommend coming here for your mattress needs.
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Shanir Kol
Shanir Kol, founder and CEO of SleePare, pioneered the “Try and Buy” model in eCommerce, enhancing mattress shopping by combining in-store trials with online purchases. Launching in 1999, his company focuses on customer satisfaction and eco-friendly practices, aiming to minimize mattress waste and expand sustainably.